The 31-year-old ‘My Drunk Kitchen’ creator announced her enGAYgement (this is how she calls it) to her girlfriend Ella, who works as an executive produsser of Buzzfeed, via Twitter. The video creator started her popular YouTube channel in 2011 and often uploads personal stories, in part coming out to her watchers and being open about whom she was dating with. “It’s so exciting to share our engagement story, there is just not enough positive queer representation out there of the realities of being in queer relationships,” Hart told PEOPLE Magazine, adding that whether same-sex or opposite-sex, love is always love, and there is nothing more amazing in this life than to find a person you would want to grow old with. Hart proposed to her girlfriend during a trip to Hawaii and picked the ring out of a plastic bucket as the sun set on the beach. “When I think of the epitome of our relationship, it’s sitting on the beach at night without judgment,” said Hart. The wedding is planned for 2020.